Peer Helping
- Peer Helping
- Inside-Out Peer Helper Program Website
- Mrs. Erb Page
- Inside-Out Peer Helping Program YouTube
- Peer Helping Program Facebook
- News About Our Peer Helper Program
- Valerie Erb's Video/Blog
- Pay It Forward Page
- Inside-Out Peer Helping Curriculum
- Peer Helping Program Standards
- Syllabus & Parent Letter
- Basic Needs Information
- Enabling Information Sheet
- The Five Languages of Love
- Grow Beyond Hurt and Failure
- Peer Helping Lesson Information
- Peer Helping Request Form
- Peer Mediation Process
- What Students Will Learn
- Study Guide for Midterm
- Final Presentation Assignment
- Sample of a Final Presentation
- Sample of a Final Project
- Quotes About Our Program
- Course Outline
- Learning Styles
- Roseville High School
- Basic Needs Information
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BASIC NEEDSSurvivalControl (or Power)Love & BelongingFreedomFunSelf-Worth (Later included as the 6th Need)
· In practice, the most important need is love and belonging, as closeness and connectedness with the people we care about is a requisite for satisfying all of the needs. However, without the survival need met other needs would seem less important.
Choice theory, with the Seven Caring Habits, replaces external control psychology and the Seven Deadly Habits. External control, the present psychology of almost all people in the world, is destructive to relationships. When used, it will destroy the ability of one or both to find satisfaction in that relationship and will result in a disconnection from each other. Being disconnected is the source of almost all human problems such as what is called mental illness, drug addiction, violence, crime, school failure, spousal abuse, to mention a few.Relationships and our Habits
Seven Caring Habits
Seven Deadly Habits
1.
Supporting
1.
Criticizing
2.
Encouraging
2.
Blaming
3.
Listening
3.
Complaining
4.
Accepting
4.
Nagging
5.
Trusting
5.
Threatening
6.
Respecting
6.
Punishing
7.
Negotiating
7.
Bribing